Each of Us on Our Own Path
Your financial journey is not supposed to look like anyone else’s. We all walk through different seasons, different responsibilities, and different histories. I think of it like walking through a forest. Sometimes your path is clear, calm and sunlit. Other times it feels dark, confusing, unsteady, uphill. Sometimes you’re walking alone and sometimes someone crosses your path to help you over a difficult patch. But none of these moments say anything about your worth or your direction.
I spent a big part of my life feeling behind financially. Watching others buy homes, take vacations, or save effortlessly made me wonder if something was wrong with me. When I became a caregiver to William, our financial path became even more unique. Our considerations were not like anyone else’s. Doctor visits, special diet needs, medications, specific safety provisions. everything seemed like unexpected surprises. There were months that felt impossible and years where we had to rebuild slowly. But those seasons taught me something powerful that your value is not measured by your pace. It is measured by your willingness to keep going.
Your path may include layoffs, medical bills, single parenting, caregiving, divorce, rebuilding after loss, or simply years of financial confusion. Someone else’s path may look easier because you cannot see their rough terrain. And someone behind you may look like they’re struggling, but they are carrying a heavier emotional or financial load than you realize. The forest is different for all of us.
Financial peace begins when you stop comparing your path to anyone else’s. Comparison pulls you out of your life and into someone else’s highlight reel. Your journey deserves focus, compassion, and commitment. When you honor your own path, you begin making decisions that support your reality, not someone else’s expectations.
Coaching is like walking with someone in their forest long enough for them to find steadiness again. It is not about dragging them forward. It is about meeting them where they are, helping them see clearly, and guiding them until they feel ready to walk independently.
Amanda Butler - Steel Peace
